改变

星期六的晚上
和一位好久不见的朋友见面
谈了很多
交换了很多想法
他的话 让我沉思
让我思考
至少 他提醒了我
什么才是最重要的

“享受生活”
“追求自己想要的生活”
"试着去融入别人的生活”
好难的课题

朋友 谢谢你
还有你带回来的巧克力






















改变 ~如~

经典

好久没写部落格了
也没有像往常一样
无所事事的流连在网上
上班的日子 有点累~

过去的一个星期
听到了某些经典的句子

department manager 说的
"we should celebrate and enjoy our night.
because people's celebrating success"
"only those who success are celebrating"
庆祝的意义...捉摸中

senior说的
"audit is about how good you bullshit
is not on how good you perform your job"
audit的形式...捉摸中

健聪说的
" enjoy your life"
享受...学习中


~如~

forever friend

i got a forever friend request in facebook
i stare at it and a question appeared in my mind
what's forever friend?
how will you define it?
and what do you understand about this word?
i have no idea on this...
i used to signed off with friends forever when i drop a message previously
but not now, since i can't see the value of doing so

should we discuss what is a friend at first?
at least in your perception,
what do a friend mean to you.
a person which you could share everything with
a person which know you well
a person which is available to you when you need
a person which you think of when you need help
and so on...

but, what is forever?
life long?
i can't assure that

yeah. i have friends,
but it's different with others which got a soul mate since young
my friends kept changing in different stages of my life
and i seldom contact with my so-called friends
maybe, we will only meet up once in a blue moon
just to gather along
and for the sake of updating each others on current status
er..if friendship is a subject in school
i am sure that i will failed it...


forever friends?
~joo~

T700

终于
决定换手提电话了~
sony ericson T700

不想说话

对不起~
原谅我的无礼
原谅我的冷漠
我只是 不想说话...
就让我一个人
面对自己


~如~

The Gossips

I saw this painting in The Star this morning
it's The Gossips by Norman Rockwell
I like it so much, my thought began to flow when I saw this
I think you should enlarge it and have a proper look of the paint
You might have a laugh on peoples around you,
and also yourself :P
It shows the communication chain
It shows clearly how rumors come, and how people gossips
No matter gals or guys, old or young
human will still gossip
on whatever topic, using any communication tools
it can be either face to face, through phone calls, internet or blablabla...
look at the facial expression,
again, a facts that true, but people wouldn't admit it
gossips make peoples feel happy and laugh,
not sure with whether this is one way of relaxation,
but I hope nope
because when you are laughing,
the person in your topic will not feel happy,
maybe, gossip is an action which can hurt people

Do you remember what we do in young time?
we will tell our so-called "secret" to someone we "trust"
"ei, I tell you but you don't tell others ya."
"ok"
"(passing secret)"
and the person will then tell another person
"wei, I tell you something about XXX, but you don't tell others, ok?"
"ok"
"(passing secret again)"
this chain will kept on passing, and some days later
most of the people around you will know the "secret"
you might get back to the secret by yourself
or you will get some rumors about the secret
modified secret, no longer the true and origin one
imagine, you are the first person who share your "secret" to others
and your "secret" being passing around
or you are the person which others are gossiping
how do you feel?
if you are normal enough, hurt? pain? sad?
it's normal for you to feel depress when you play a role in others topic
but you can't do nothing

human, can you please stop the childish action?
can you please find something else to chat while you are free?
you can talk on daily news, on fashion, on food, on books and lots more
but not gossip
why should you cheer up yourself,
by putting pain on others?


~joo~